Finding out...

I wanted to know...so I asked.  For me, it is much better to know the answer than to surmise wrongly.  What am I talking about?  It doesn't really matter does it?  I have learned through the years that when anything, and I do mean anything, is unclear, it is better to know than to keep on wondering, and thus wandering throuht the land of the unknown.  So I just ask.  Not bluntly, or crudely.  But with genuine, sincere desire to know.  You might try that too.  There is way too much assuming that goes on in this life.  People think they know why people act a certain way, or why things are the way they are, when all the while there are things going on that may be completely opposite what we think they are.  Laboring under illusions, or living in misperception is a sad experience.  There may be only a short distance between what you believe and the truth.  That distance may be covered by simply asking.  Try it.  What do you have to lose other than your wrong idea.